ugh

People need to stop being so flippant about divorce. the reason why your grandparents are still together is because they stayed together during times they didn't particularly want to be together. wake up, people. if you stop feeling the love, find a way to feel it again, or let time pass and rekindle it later. don't just make up some stupid excuse about knowing that you just weren't right for eachother or growing apart. Marriage is work. Duh. To maintain a close relationship with anyone for a long time is work. Your life may be crap, but you can't blame it on your spouse, cut ties, and omg, just start again with, like, a whole great life ahead of you. When you get a divorce, I imagine it's not really that easy to just pick things up and start over. Stop deluding yourself, world.